The Womanizer Was So Good I Passed Out the First Time I Tried It
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If you’re new to the party-for-one game, Alexandra Fine, sexologist and co-founder of Dame has a few pointers. “Imagine the sensations of all these different kinds of vibrators.” She adds that if the sensation sounds like something you would like, your body will tell you. “Launched earlier this year, OhMiBod’s Lovelife Rev was designed with accessibility in mind. Its ergonomic design and large button are easier to grip than most vibes.” The easy-to-grip ergonomic design means all of your attention can go to getting off.
With its shiny metallic finish in neon-bright colors, this is one of the most aesthetically pleasing bullets in my collection. Since this toy is longer and thicker than bullet vibes typically are, it can be used for internal vaginal stimulation in a pinch, making it a versatile pick. Unlike most motorized sex toys, which need to be plugged in prior to use , the Vibrato comes fully charged. So immediately after investigating the buttons and giving the toy a quick wash with warm water and fragrance-free soap (it’s waterproof, another bonus), I got down to it. Since downsizing to an apartment with limited storage, I’ve come to see the value in versatile sex toys, or gadgets that can be used in multiple ways. Figure out whether or not you’ll want to use your vibe for anal penetration—because if you do, it absolutely must have a flared base.
In the best instances, the patch exposed to lube appeared slightly raised; in the worst cases, the lube completely removed the finish from the toy, causing it to become gummy, sticky, and blistered. The staff at Early to Bed replicated our test and found similar results. I received my master of public health degree in 2014 from Indiana University, where I assisted research scientist Debra Herbenick with academic and consumer research related to sex-toy use.
If noisy buzzing takes you out of the moment, consider this cock ring and its amazingly quiet (but not weak) vibrations. Its shimmies and shakes have a low, rumbly timbre for deep, satisfying sensations, and its matte silicone is super soft against skin, especially when lubed. This cock ring doesn’t have a lot of bells and whistles, but that’s the point if you’d rather hear moans than vibes.
Some vibrators run on teeny, tiny, batteries, but most these days (especially if you’re paying a bit more) are USB rechargeable. If you notice a vibrator uses a magnetic USB charger, it is most likely splash-proof and maybe even waterproof, which is especially good news if you like you use your time in the bath to really relax. Most rechargeable vibes have at least 30 minutes of runtime in them, but it’s definitely worth double-checking if you know you like taking your time and dislike feeling rushed.
Time and time again, I will toss a breezy, adjustable C-ring like this into my bag or back pocket. It’s discreet, and works for pretty much all penis sizes (the max adjustment level is 8.5 inches), and when you’re done using it, the release toggle is just a push away. Listen, I want to do my part for the environment, but I also want to get off—and now I can do both. The Gaia Eco surprised me with its power and design—it’s not just a gimmick, it works. Plus, I feel slightly better about my life choices knowing my vibrator isn’t contributing to landfills. The PlusOne Dual Vibrating Massager delivers pleasure without the hefty price tag.
From the moment I slipped it on, I was in love and wore it all the time. This inventive cock ring comes with an optional “custom fit link” that allows you to expand its diameter to more comfortably fit a penis with more girth, which tend to get squeeze by one-size-fits-most rings. Like other We-Vibe cock rings vibrator, this one also packs a punch power-wise, is waterproof, and can be controlled from near or far using the We-Vibe app. With the Atom Plus and its dual motors, everyone gets to enjoy the wonderful vibes. While the top motor hits your partner’s clitoris (and your shaft), the bottom motor brings some rumble to your very own testicles and taint.
You can also use the band to adjust the tightness just how you like it. It focuses deep, strong vibrations right onto your frenulum and the surrounding area, no stroking or thrusting required. As with other Lovense toys, this one can be controlled via the well-designed Lovense app, so you can create your own vibration patterns, sync up the vibrations with music, or even let a far-away partner take control of the toy. Are willing to get a little adventurous with your first foray into the land of sex toys?
